Great replies,
Capn Telescope hit the nail on the head. I'm a recovering perfectionist I want things I build to be perfect. From construction to design, I like using space people wouldn't even know was there. And I like the wow factor. I like when people say "You built that." Not that that's all bad but I want this done in a year not three, and at some point you do have to start. I gave my wife the okay to beat me with the tool of her choice if I start to get to out there.
I know the basics I wasn't 5' wide, 9'+, lots of water storage, shower, nice galley, full XL bed, some type of potty for the wife, and a place to keep a table. Even just a 2X3', most places we like to camp don't have picnic tables and my knees are not happy about that.
I have tons of other questions but I will start a new thread because it might help others and be easier to find than in one big thread.
My plan is to be ready to start the build when the summer heat is coming to an end, September or October. We have already had 108 degree and I don't have AC in the garage.