by Ratkity » Mon Nov 29, 2010 8:46 pm
ANOTHER THANKSGIVING AT THE BEACH
It's been a family tradition for over two decades. Once a year my parents and my three siblings all get together with spouses and children, in-laws, nieces and nephews at the beach in one large rental house. On an average, there are 13 to 15 people there at any given time. Our favorite beach is at the Outer Banks of NC and our favorite time of year for this get-together has been Thanksgiving week. The fishing folks go surf fishing, bicycle riders have the run of the empty neighborhoods and every night there are board games or an ongoing puzzle laid out to keep everyone occupied. Add in the football games or children's movies blaring on the TV in the background and multiple people cooking various things in the kitchen. Stir in a little family bickering and unpredictable weather and the week-long chaos is nearly complete. There's never a dull moment with all that energy around. Even the year the nor'easter took out the power on the island for several days and the big entertainment was watching cars trying to navigate through a two foot puddle that formed in front of the neighborhood. The "swamp house" rental has its own set of stories to go with the name. Each year and each house has its stories.
This year was going to be the last time in the big blue rental house. Our family has diminished in size and the recession has made us all seek cheaper alternatives for lodging. We'd spent the last three Thanksgivings in the blue house and I was sorta sad to bid it goodbye.
My three sisters and I each cook a special meal one night during the week and everyone helps put together Thanksgiving dinner. All other meals are deemed "every man for himself". The two dishwashers in the kitchen are constantly in use. Being hungry is something that never happens during beach week! There is an overabundance of food, cakes, pies and various other snacks. Everyone cooks their most favorite recipes so gaining weight is par for the course.
The first night I pulled up and started unloading coolers and boxes full of food, my bicycle and its accessories, multiple games, etc; it's amazing all the things that can be loaded in a little Rav4. Out of the darkness, I heard the loudest meowing since I adopted Bossman kitty (he's a talker). At first, it seemed there were kitties all around meowing for food. Turns out it was one little gray girl kitty about four months old. She was fast and savvy, never being close enough to touch, but knowing that coolers had food (or fish bait). I tossed her some pre-cooked bacon from my cooler which she ate on the run while I ducked and weaved around parked cars to try to get a good look at her in the dark. She was just dark gray with a wary, yet sweet little face. I sighed and tried not to think of Bossman and the rest of my fuzzykids at home with the pet sitter. I idly wondered how Bossman would react to a little sister. I know that feral cats are not welcome at the national seashore and are usually hunted by game wardens. I secretly hoped to get closer to her during the week.
Every night around 8pm she would be outside in the dark, meowing. She was well fed that week. I never could get close to her. She tolerated my presence as long as I sat still on the picnic table bench, but she was never within arm's reach. A couple of nights the wind was bitter cold and the family had games going, so I heated her little morsels in the microwave and left out a bowl for her. After the games, I'd go back outside and the bowl was empty. Thanksgiving day, she got fed twice with the boiled giblets and leftover turkey juices. I saw her waddle happily away with a little buddha belly into the sound-side marsh. I didn't see her Friday night, but the bowl was empty again. While Mom was out bicycle riding, she saw the little gray kitty across the street wandering around. Seems the kitty had a large prowling area. I waited for her Saturday night, but never saw her. Her bowl lay untouched Sunday morning. The week was over and I was never able to approach the little gray feral kitty. At least she was well-fed this week. I meowed a sad goodbye to her and quietly prayed well-wishes to her as I pulled out of the driveway.
I wasn't prepared the sight after pulling out of the neighborhood onto the only road that leaves the island. I saw the shattered body of the feral little gray kitty on the side of the road about three blocks from the big blue house's neighborhood. I felt as if I was slapped silly. The pain in my gut expanded to my heart. It was all I could do to just pull over the side of the road and sob. I wanted to turn back, but didn't think I could deal with the sight again. I was shaking all over. Every scenario ran through my mind; when? how could someone? what happened? could I have done something different? I finally resumed my journey home. I was devastated and continually wiped tears for hours as I battled traffic back into the DC metro area.
My furkids enthusiastically greeted me and covered me in fur, puppy kisses and kitty meows. The parrot screamed happily for 45 minutes while I unloaded. Exhausted and tired, I called family members to let them know I was safely home. Each one saw the little gray kitty as they left the beach. Mom and I cried together and gave up trying to make sense of it all. I think we all gave extra hugs and kisses to our furkids that night.
Thanksgiving week is never "just another week at the beach". Each house and year has its own stories. I'm not sad about bidding the big blue house goodbye anymore. Next year's Thanksgiving week will be in a new smaller rental in a town a bit down the road. That one will have stories associated with it as well. Tonight, I raise a glass to another holiday week gone and scratch the purring lap kitty behind his ears. Here's to another Thanksgiving at the beach.