Forgive me for venturing into the lady domain. Im young by definition at 20 years old.
I have come to a un-confirmed conclusion that my generation of lady's are not sure what they want. They can want to get an apartment one day and start a life with you. Then months later they do a complete 180 down another road all together.
for example. When i was 14 i met my first GF keri we were together 2 years before my parents divorced and i moved and we split. We had slightly touched on kids marriage etc. Now fast forward to Jan 09 i met her on the side of the road with her mom broke down, She now had two kids and the father had hit the road. I stepped in took care of the kids we ultimately got engaged and i moved us into a small house in town. Everything she wanted kids a house financial stability and a husband (well almost). March of this year i came home early to find her with another man. (packed my things and left). We later talked about the event and why. Her answer left me in awe she was to comfortable there was no unpredictability no day to day struggle. She is now back in the forest single and on welfare.
Since march i have been with someone older than me (29) and its night and day. She knows exactly what she wants and knows how to get there. Ultimately Monday morning we went are separate ways as she landed a great job in houston and i could not make that move, but felt she should go and be set for life.
I am trying to figure out if
A. my generation is really as unpredictable and more by the seat of the pants as i think it is.
or
B. Do to my upbringing (old school type views mixed with country manners) i just dont fit my generation. I do find most of my friends and people i associate with are 30 and older. And i find myself looking at the new fads and multiple other things in my age range that leave me thinking "what is the appeal and what are they thinking"
or
C. as keri said i tried to hard "meaning by trying to make us happy and at basically succeeding at everything she wanted in her "happily ever after" i tried to hard... I don't get it.
I talked about this to my grandmother she simply handed me a cassette with the song Ronnie McDowell ~ Older Women
Love old country but never heard that song but i tend to agree