Gray Haired Sisterhood

[deleted]

I have greys but can't say I'm embracing them. Even though my hair is black I buy inexpensive, non-permanent home kits and go with a dark brown that ends up looking like I have highlights. Not sure when I'll be ready to go natural. My mom has beautiful silver/white hair. I guess someday I'll be ready, but not today

 

[Phooey]

If my hair would grow out and look as gorgeous as TDN or Debbie's I would do it. Unfortunately it has a more skunk meets calico cat look and not in a good way. I guess I will just keep seeing the other man in my life (Risto, the hairdresser) and be a phoney blonde for awhile longer.

 

[nevadatear]

Oh phooie i say phooey! I bet is not nearly as bad as you think)

 

[Phooey]

Oh, it's bad. Risto gives me a discount just so I can keep it covered up. My Aunt Clara looked like a skunk too. It just doesn't look like anything found in nature unless its been run over.

 

[indycamper-TNT]

I started life as a red-head, and got my first grey hair about 16. By the time I was in my late 40s I was so grey that people thought I was blond! I tried coloring my hair a couple of times, but never liked the results - didn't really seem to go with my skin tones! Now I'm just a natural sort of white / grey / whatever. As I told my kids when they were young - it's always best to tell the truth. Guess that goes for my hair color too!

 

[Eunice-TNT]

I have been natural for several years now. It is starting to be salt and pepper. In the house, looking in the mirror it looks like a nice silver but outside in the sunlight it is an ugly gray. I dont like it at all but really dont want to dye it again. It grows too fast and I have to do it like every 3 weeks to avoid roots. what to do what to do

 

[Mary C]

It is grey with just a little blond on the tips.......... I don't know if I can live with it I will try till CRA.

Mary C.

 

[Eunice-TNT]

bump
hello ladies. Just wanted to check in. I am still around just haven't had time to post much. I haven't been out with the Hill House for quite some time. My mom is in hospice care and I sit with her every day. When I get home I am mentally and physically drained so I just go to bed. Not sure how much longer I will have my mother with me so I am not planning anything this summer. I will be with her as much as possible.

ps
still no dye and I seem to be getting more and more gray, not the pretty silver I thought I was getting

 

[nevadatear]

I was just thinking about bumping this! Eunice, maybe you need a different style to rock your silver a little? Have you tried the purple shampoo to brighten it? For anyone thinking silver there are several great, supportive Facebook pages out there, like Going Gloriously Grey.

 

[deleted]

Sorry to hear about your mom being in hospice Eunice

Well, I've made the leap and stopped coloring my hair. The last time I did was the first week of February. I'm at a point where I have enough to make a statement but not so much I'll end up with the dreaded "skunk stripe" as I grow it out. So far so good. Am planning to keep it long the entire time. Hoping to achieve this look someday.... So far everything is coming in bright, sparkling white.

And I need to go check out that Facebook group

 

[The Teardrop Nanny]

Hi Eunice, thinking of you and Mother and sending our love
Dean and I have thought of you and the Hill House and extend the invite to come visit during Pamplin IRG WHENEVER you can get away, with or w/o the Teardrop.

Here's an update from my life....absolutely LOVE being married & retired, and we'll celebrate our 1st Anniversary @ the Dam Gathering. Tending to multiple houses and properties...I do LOTS of yard work

The folks we have working with us from Hospice and Caring Angels to help out my parents (66 years married and still living independently) have been a Godsend, literally and figuratively. Simply wonderful people.
My 92 y.o. Dad has been in the care of Hospice since July, and my Mom, ( who will turn 86 on the Dam Gathering weekend ) has been caring for him 24/7. Now that I am retired I can help out too. I feel so blessed to have both my parents just minutes away and still together, with my Mom shouldering most of the load. Their marriage is truly an example of living (& loving) the meaning of their marriage vows. I do most of her shopping, errands, etc. and respite care. It is hard to leave sometimes, and I can relate to the drain it makes you feel in your heart. I know how caring and what a strong lady you are, and I will pray for you and your Mother. You can call us anytime.
xoxo TDN
Joanie

 

[The Teardrop Nanny]

Hi all, just a check in to say I'm still at the Platinum status!
Just got back from the Bigfoot Gathering at Orleans by the beautiful Pearch Creek. No BF sightings, but did shoot an Outdoor Cast Iron Cooking webisode of the legendary Bigfoot Burger.

www.youtube.com/outdoorcastironcook

Also, a warm hello to you, Eunice! You have been in our thoughts and We hope all is going smoothly for you in this transition time, and we are sorry for your loss. A hug to you xoxo TDN
(The IRG offer still stands)

All the best to the GHS ladies, and hi to those guys who lurk and read.
ttfn,
Joanie

 

[BookSaver]

Teardrop Nanny ~
Bacon wrapped onion rings -- Wow, I've never seen those. They look amazing!
Great video.
I just sent the link to your video to a nephew and asked him if we could create a whole annual event based around bacon wrapped onion rings.
And I want one of those cast iron stove/oven things in my back yard.

 

[deleted]

Oh my goodness. Your videos are awesome! I want to sit here all day in The Glampette and watch every episode

One question. Do you two own a restaurant or something? Those are serious smokers you have at home for your bacon, cheese, etc.

And to stay on topic it's been four months since I last colored my hair. Still not sure if I like it or not. Wish I had more grey, then I'd love it.

 

[BookSaver]

I colored my hair when I worked in the costume department of a community theatre. I do think it made a difference to how I was treated around the young performers and staff members. Disappointing, but true.

Then I was laid off from the theatre and got a job at a public library. I decided that it was totally OK for a librarian to have some gray streaks. That was around 2008.

My mother has beautiful white fluffy hair. I'm hoping I will inherit that from her.

 

[The Teardrop Nanny]

Thanks, Stacie. I was hoping to meet you at the Dam Gathering. I've checked out your blog site(s) in the past and love what you have been doing ... your canine child is so cute!! I just saw your +1 on the comment about my hair on OCIC also!!
Do you want to join us at the IRG this 4th of July??

We are some serious foodies by now. Just love to cook and eat, especially outdoors. Keep on watching our webisodes to see what else Dean finds to cook in/with. He's always jumping in to something new !
I'm sure I'll come home some day to find that YardCrashers has created an outdoor cooking arena complete with a deep pit BBQ!!

And Booksaver, we are thrilled that you linked us up with your relatives and look forward to seeing how this event turned out. A quote from MadJack is appropriate ....."pictures, gotta love dem pictures" Hope you'll take some and share
ttfn,
Joanie

 

[The Teardrop Nanny]

Just for you, Stacie....cuz we enjoy having fun around the campfire when we introduce ourselves.

You > "Hi, my name is Stacie"
Us, the GHS > "Hi, Stacie"
You> "It's been four months since I last colored my hair"
Us, the GHS > "Stacie, we support your efforts and are here for you, 24/7."

Go grey, and go all the way!! xoxo TDN

 

[deleted]

I subscribed to your Youtube channel. Watched about five this morning.

If I were still here I'd love to join you at IRG but, make that a big BUT, I'm going to be leaving soon and won't be in California when the IRG rolls around. Will either be up in eastern WA state or heading east. Am in the process of making some rather dramatic life changes brought about by my tiny trailer. Traveling so far and often on my own last year made me realize that it was time for me to move on.

And thank you about my dog Kitai. Sadly, he passed away in March. It was a devastating loss as he'd been my best buddy for 11 years. I wrote him a eulogy blog post here: http://theflirtyguide.blogspot.com/2014/03/a-once-in-lifetime-dog-rip-kitai.html I still miss him so much every day. I thought I'd be setting out on this new chapter of my life with him as my co-pilot but instead I'll be doing it on my own. If I hadn't colored my hair all of those years we would have looked more similar, Kitai and I, with our salt and pepper hair coloring.

 

[deleted]

Just for you, Stacie....cuz we enjoy having fun around the campfire when we introduce ourselves.

You > "Hi, my name is Stacie"
Us, the GHS > "Hi, Stacie"
You> "It's been four months since I last colored my hair"
Us, the GHS > "Stacie, we support your efforts and are here for you, 24/7."

Go grey, and go all the way!! xoxo TDN

Thank you. I can tell you one thing, even though I've grown my hair out and donated 17"-18" twice, growing out the grey is proving to be far more challenging.

 

[nevadatear]

Stacie, we second Joanie, hope we can see you one more time before you mive! Hang in their with the hair, i think you look great!