It's very unusual to get a seal out without damaging it. That is why they always come with a hub rebuilding kit. Even if I have one that comes out easy (very rare), I replace it with new. Bottom line is there is no other way to get the inner bearing out.
If you look in the hub at the surface these bearings ride, that is the cup. The bearings are really two part, cup and cone. The part that falls out is the cone. The part that stays in is called the cup (or race by some folks). If you can catch your fingernail on any markings on the cups, they need to be replaced.
Seems to me I posted this video a while back for you. The guy does things a bit different from the way I was taught, but he knows what he's doing.
http://www.youtube.com/user/etrailertv? ... iler%20hub
It's good to get this experience Pam, but it it was me (and it will be later this year), I'd just get a new axle with the brake stuff installed, weld on new spring seats and be done with it. Then you can get readily available wheels for it too, standard stuff, not weird. Of course, seeing I couldn't (and can't) afford that right away, I rebuilt my hubs. Brakes will come later.
Frank
Tiny travel trailer - 1979 Sunline Sunspot. Tow vehicles: 2008 Subaru AWD Outback, 2009 GMC 4WD Canyon. For fun: 1923 T bucket hot rod, 1962 Power Cat tunnel hull speed boat. 1974 Dodge Dart waiting for renovation.