Just the word "post office" is enough to sent me over the edge

. I live in a very small rural town where home delivery is not available. You must have a P.O. box. Once upon a time, pretty much all you had to do was put the name, the city and the state and it got to you. No more. If the p.o. box is not on the letter or package, back it goes to the sender.
Have you tried ordering something lately? Oh yeah, you all have, you are building a trailer! Many computer systems will not allow you to put in a p.o. box as they general ship UPS or fed ex. But they use USPS address software, so if you put in your physical address, it knows it is invalid. So I can't use my p.o. box and I can't use my street address.

. So if I can get past the "invalid address" and put in my street address, assuming it is coming UPS or fed ex (or I will call them and that is what they tell me), but my package never comes. Why you ask? I will tell you. Because it was shipped the cheapest UPS with an agreement with the postal service for final delivery. UPS delivers to the post office, with the required street address because that is all they will accept, then it gets to the post office, and they ship it back because there is no p.o. box. I am so angry I can scream. there is no way around this.
The post office tells me "they have no choice" they must return it if doesn't have the correct address. I have complained to everyone from the supervisor all the way up to my Senator with no results. They all tell me that is the rules, or to put both addresses on my packages. But guess what, the computer ordering software will not accept them. Nice try!
What is really angryfing is when it is normal UPS or Fed ex they will chase me all over town, and deliver it to the coffee shop if they have to, everyone knows everyone in this town, including the UPS man, but USPS will ship back my package everytime. No customer services there. YUp I am mad and if I could find a way to never use the post office again, I would.
No, I am not happy with my post office. Since Grant sent to my P.O. box, his stuff delivered just fine!
Debbie