Arne,
Yes, epoxy is better than polyester (though also easier to get wrong). The question is whether the extra perfomance of the epoxy is actually needed for a particular job. It's really like picking hardwood .v. softwood - each has its own use.
Dave,
Mixing acetone may or may not be a good idea - it's a solvent so it will evaporate (obviously, eh? - that's why you're using it). But where it evaporates it will leave a tiny void which will then attract water, or other things, by osmosis. That's why epoxies for coating are proudly claimed to be solvent-free.
If you are putting more coats over the top, then this may not matter. But equally I have not seen any sign that it is necessary to soak resin further into the wood. Filling end grain is a different problem, where the need is to supply more resin than the capillary action can take away - the answer is repeated applications of the same batch of resin, say at one or two minute intervals, rather than several coats.
Andrew