Soldering wire questions....

I don't about about all of ya'll, but I just hate to crimp wires together and expect them to last for a long time. I had made up my mind that, in the interest of doing a top quality job, I was going to solder every connection on my teardrop's wiring. Now, I have to say that I don't solder wire for a living, but hell, it aint rocket science. When I raced RC cars, years ago, I soldered stuff all the time. And I got good at it.
So I got my old soldering iron out and I couldn't get it to work. I learned with my RC cars, to keep a wet sponge close by to keep the tip clean but it didn't seem to matter. This iron had seen better days. Finally, I threw it in the trash and went over to Radio Shack to get a new iron - a 25 watt. I never could get the wire to tin. The wire, BTW, is 14 guage automotive wire from NAPA and the solder is general purpose, lead free, flux core stuff from Radio Shack. I also have some of the same type of solder from Home Depot.
My new iron worked for a little while but it didn't seem like it was putting out enough heat to even tin the end of the iron itself. So I took it back and wanted to trade it for an iron with a higher wattage but they didn't have any. So I got my money back and went to the Home Depot. I bought a Weller pistol that you have to hold the trigger. The trigger has 2 positions - one for 100 watts and the other for 140 watts. But each time a lay the thing down, the tip cools down and then I have to wait for it to heat up again for the next joint. But even at this, I never got one single solitary wire to tin. In fact, I could barely get the solder to melt on the tip of the gun. So after a couple of days of trying to make it work, back to Home Depot it went.
I have to admit that I've always preferred irons to soldering guns because the iron can sit there and cook while you get set up for your next joint. Then it's always hot and ready to go. But Home Depot didn't have any that I liked, meaning they didn't look any better than the ones that Radio Shack had. So I went to Lowe's.
Lowe's had a nice looking Weller iron that was rated at 75 watts. I brought it home and plugged it up. Within just a little while, the tip warmed up and tinned like a champ. But I couldn't get the wire to tin. So I called my brother in law and talked about it with him. He suggested that there wasn't enough flux in the flux core these days. Everything's getting cheaper and cheaper. That made sense to me so I went back Radio Shack to get a little container of flux and they didn't have any. They were out. So were 2 other Radio Shacks. Finally I found some at Home Depot.
The flux was the final missing element. This afternonn, after a week of spinning my wheels and thinking maybe I should just crimp everything, I did some of the most beautiful soldering work that I've done in many years. I got about half way through with my wiring harness and the iron quit working. The indicator light was still on, I cleaned the tip, but no go. And I made sure that the tip was in tight and the set screw was tigtened down. I've been through all of that. It just decided that it had had enough soldering.
So my questions are thus:
Have things changed so much in the last few years? I mean, wire that doesn't tin without flux, soldering irons that don't heat, soldering irons that go out within an hour of starting, what the heck is all this about? Where can I find a soldering iron that will go the distance? And where can I find a good high quality wire that was actually made to be soldered?
Or have I forgotten everything that I ever learned about soldering?
So I got my old soldering iron out and I couldn't get it to work. I learned with my RC cars, to keep a wet sponge close by to keep the tip clean but it didn't seem to matter. This iron had seen better days. Finally, I threw it in the trash and went over to Radio Shack to get a new iron - a 25 watt. I never could get the wire to tin. The wire, BTW, is 14 guage automotive wire from NAPA and the solder is general purpose, lead free, flux core stuff from Radio Shack. I also have some of the same type of solder from Home Depot.
My new iron worked for a little while but it didn't seem like it was putting out enough heat to even tin the end of the iron itself. So I took it back and wanted to trade it for an iron with a higher wattage but they didn't have any. So I got my money back and went to the Home Depot. I bought a Weller pistol that you have to hold the trigger. The trigger has 2 positions - one for 100 watts and the other for 140 watts. But each time a lay the thing down, the tip cools down and then I have to wait for it to heat up again for the next joint. But even at this, I never got one single solitary wire to tin. In fact, I could barely get the solder to melt on the tip of the gun. So after a couple of days of trying to make it work, back to Home Depot it went.
I have to admit that I've always preferred irons to soldering guns because the iron can sit there and cook while you get set up for your next joint. Then it's always hot and ready to go. But Home Depot didn't have any that I liked, meaning they didn't look any better than the ones that Radio Shack had. So I went to Lowe's.
Lowe's had a nice looking Weller iron that was rated at 75 watts. I brought it home and plugged it up. Within just a little while, the tip warmed up and tinned like a champ. But I couldn't get the wire to tin. So I called my brother in law and talked about it with him. He suggested that there wasn't enough flux in the flux core these days. Everything's getting cheaper and cheaper. That made sense to me so I went back Radio Shack to get a little container of flux and they didn't have any. They were out. So were 2 other Radio Shacks. Finally I found some at Home Depot.
The flux was the final missing element. This afternonn, after a week of spinning my wheels and thinking maybe I should just crimp everything, I did some of the most beautiful soldering work that I've done in many years. I got about half way through with my wiring harness and the iron quit working. The indicator light was still on, I cleaned the tip, but no go. And I made sure that the tip was in tight and the set screw was tigtened down. I've been through all of that. It just decided that it had had enough soldering.
So my questions are thus:
Have things changed so much in the last few years? I mean, wire that doesn't tin without flux, soldering irons that don't heat, soldering irons that go out within an hour of starting, what the heck is all this about? Where can I find a soldering iron that will go the distance? And where can I find a good high quality wire that was actually made to be soldered?
Or have I forgotten everything that I ever learned about soldering?