Frame Complete, Axle Ordered!!!!!!!!!!!

I just ordered my Dexter Axle. It is a 2K with 3.5K hubs for the larger spindles and bearings and 5X4.5 lug pattern.
Does everyone concur that this is the proper axle for a 5' wide x 8' long, w/5'7" tongue. My brother-in-law works at Lucky B and is insisting that I put a 3.5K axle under it. He says that once I get it loaded, I will be pushing the limits of a 2K axle.
I told him that I have confered with this site and that he is use to over-building his mule trailers and does not quite understand the size and use of a TD trailer.
Please concur that I made the right choice with a little justification.

Does everyone concur that this is the proper axle for a 5' wide x 8' long, w/5'7" tongue. My brother-in-law works at Lucky B and is insisting that I put a 3.5K axle under it. He says that once I get it loaded, I will be pushing the limits of a 2K axle.
I told him that I have confered with this site and that he is use to over-building his mule trailers and does not quite understand the size and use of a TD trailer.
Please concur that I made the right choice with a little justification.
