Hey there PapaGene... is your teardrop 9' long? The one pic'd in your avatar...
Anyhoo...
eatatjoz
Annealing the pipe may solve your problems.
You can anneal this copper tubing by heating the tube end until it almost glows then immediately quench it in cold water.
Just as importantly, how are you cutting the end of the tube? Hacksaw or pipe cutter?
Cut the tube as absolutely square as you can, then chamfer the cut end before you begin attempting to flare it. Don't squeeze the tubing too hard, either, with the stock, or, clamp, or whatever you're using.
Good luck, and, I like you tug and tear combo; I'm shooting for a similar setup w/ my Ford Focus hatch.
