by Roly Nelson » Mon Aug 27, 2007 3:53 am
Oh my gosh, I've been reading this post for over an hour, and agree and disagree with much that has been said. This subject touches a raw nerve with me. I am the product of immigrant parents, who came over from Sweden in the 1920s. They were told that you could scoop up money in the street gutters, here in America. Not true, but surely easier to make a living here than in the old country.
The first thing my folks did when they arrived, was to learn English as soon as they could. The only English he knew was, "what time is it? and kiss my a$$" and he said he often got them mixed up. They asked questions of English speakers, trying to find the right word for this or for that. Next, they were absolutely going to become citizens as soon as they could, and they both did. My Dad always told me, "he was an American now, and if the US goes to war against Sweden, he would be fighting in the Army against his own people, and that's that"!
Then, a few years later, I came along. Naturally my folks spoke Swedish to each other at home, since their Swedish vocabulary was greater than their English. Consequently, I was spoken to in Swedish, but usually answered them in English. I understood Swedish, spoke it if required, and I am amazed that to this day, that I don't sound like Laurence Welk. (a-one, ana-two, ana-tree).
Therefore, here's the rub. It pi$$es me off when I have people around me, jabbering away in a foriegn tounge, intentionally excluding me from what's being said.. My folks never did that, if English speakers were within earshot, they spoke English. When I would bring a girl home during my courting days, I could hear ol' Dad switch from Swede to English in mid-sentence. He also instucted my visiting aunts and uncles in the house, to "speak English now, Roly's girl friend is here!" To the uninformed, this is what we call good manners!!!. Why is that so hard to understand? I agree that the non-understander is often the brunt of jokes, not behind his back, but to his face. RUDE!
I live in So Calif, where Spanish is spoken frequently. I have refused to learn the language, even though when I was running large commercial construction projects, many workers only spoke Spanish. If a subcontractor had a foreman who spoke no English, I had to phone his boss to send me someone I could talk to, right away! Jobsite safety was of utmost importance. Now don't get me wrong, I admire their willingness to flee their homeland, leaving friends and family behind, often risking their lives, to try to live the American Dream. If I were in their shoes, I would be crossing the border right along with them, in a heartbeat.
However, refusing to learn to speak English, is unacceptable, lacadaisical, aggravating and darned right lazy.If they continue to rudely carry on conversations in Spanish between themselves, of course I feel they are talking about this old, baldheaded, hard-nosed Construction Superintendent, that doesn't understand a word they are saying. Again, RUDE!!! There are English classes all over, that they can take in the evenings, all they have to do is apply themselves, just like my folks and relatives did. If nothing else, it would improve their earning power.
When I was in the construction trade, skilled craftsmen were making 30 to 40 bucks an hour. Most workers were American born, proud to learn all they could about all aspects of their trades by taking a 4 year apprenticeship and proudly finally earning journeyman's wages. Before I left the skilled-trade world, I had many Mexican friends and still do. I often found a carpenter who could really stick frame and slam nails into roof sheathing, that I took a liking to and asked him to set some door jambs or build some concrete forms. Not a chance, all he could do was drive nails, nothing else, carpenter-wise. No wonder he was only worth 8 or 10 bucks an hour.
What a shame, that the construction trades have become so restrictive and failed to continue the learning process. Is the availability of illegal, criminal, foreign workers responsible for this trend.? And make no mistake, most often, they are very dedicated, hard workers. Some people feel that if you break the law entering our country, you become a criminal at that very instant, and it remains that way, no matter how they rationalize it.
My folks had to wait their turn on a long list, to enter this country legally, couldn't get by immigration at Ellis Island if they had any health problems, and they said many Europeans were sent back on the same boat they came over on. What about the waiting applicants on this same list today, is it fair that others are able to buck-the-chow-line, just because they have friends that are willing to protect them, once they arrive in this country? Even churches are hiding them, what next? Enough of this rant, I will now step down from my soap box, and no, I don't mind pressing one for English.
Roly, first generation Swede, venting long, pent up frustrations of not getting free medical care and knowing that my taxes are paying for free care being given to others who haven't earned it, (along with a host of other things).