Mike,
Blue Sky makes battery monitor that will plug into one of their controllers the
IPN Pro remote. You still have to buy a controller to go with it so its expensive (MSRP=$500 for monitor and controller). Maybe someone else knows of one?
The Sunsaver Duo comes with a meter that will monitor the solar panel amp-hrs but not the total battery amp-hrs. Its also setup for a motor home so it will charge two different battery banks so your buying a controller that does more than most Teardroppers need. It does have good capacity with a 25 amp rating.
The Sunsaver MPPT has an add on monitor that will track amp-hrs from the array as well as amp-hrs to a load but it doesn't totalize it and you would have to limit your 12V loads to the 15 amp capacity of the controller. Once again, its pretty high dollar (MSRP=$350). It's the meter on the left in the picture below.
I use a Trimetric 2025-RV battery monitor from Bogart Engineering:
Battery Monitor Linky. Its the meter on the right in the photo below:
Its not built into the solar controller but it totalizes amp-hrs in and out from the battery. It was the most accurate for the least money when I was researching monitors but its still not cheap. I think I got mine for $170 including the shunt. I really like it, I can tell at glance where I'm at battery capacity wise. Its as simple as if the meter says 50% down, its time to charge the battery. Mine has a 100 amp shunt so I can run the inverter through it as well. They have a 500 amp option but it's less accurate.
I would use a Sunsaver (SS) 10 for up to 150 watts of PV or a SS 20 for up to 300 watts and use a Trimetric meter if I was doing it over again. I started with a SS 10 but added another panel and maxed out my controller. I upgraded to a SS MPPT but I don't think its worth the extra bucks for most people.
The Trimetric is expensive but I won't ever have a trailer without one, I like it that much. The SS MPPT monitor I'd probably do without if I was doing it again.
Bruce
Rogue MPPT Controller is the current favorite small controller over at the solar forum.