my head is about to explode!

I have spent the last 2 weeks reading forum post after forum post, link after link, resource after resource. Of the best electric sites out there I have probably read them all five times each. This is tricky business!
So, perhaps I can make some headway, using your experiences and opinions. I feel as if I have been in the apprentice shop of so many of you, as I have seen dozens of you posts.
Here we go:
Right now I have ZERO electric setup.
This is the proverbial BLANK SLATE.
We are wide open to ideas, as we have committed no funding or modifications yet.
So help me do this the best way!
Visions
-cost is not really a severe issue (I am spreading out theses expenses... plus my wife doesn't see many posts like this one!)
-having a tongue box with a battery
-running LED lighting throughout via DC
-running a fantastic fan 4000r via DC
-AC usage... computer/ toaster oven (that's about it)
-have the ability to plug in to AC when possible
-have the ability to use the AC devices using battery
(this is the tricky part for me, as I want to be able to plug in when no hookup at site is available)
Needs/Questions
A)Battery: Deep Cycle, right?
B)Converter/charger: This would allow me to have AC breakers and DC fuses in the same panel area. Also could charge battery. Right?
C)Converter/Charge II: This does not allow me to use AC devices off the battery alone?
D)If C is true.... I would need an inverter as well?
Before I go on.... I'll let that soak in, and HOPE you kind people weigh in and give my swirling brain a life preserver!
