Hey Rog!
I cook for my Wife and I, and three kids.
So obviously, I need a decent camp stove, and I like the 2-burner Coleman-fuel stoves, although they are a little bulkier than the propane stoves, in part due to the 'fun' of pumping 'em up, seems so old school, but also because I think they are more environmentally friendly without having to dispose of the little propane cylinders the other stoves use.
I take a large cast-iron frying pan, one sauce pan (for making the Kraft macaroni and cheese for the kids), large spatula, large spoon. I have a set of enameled camp dishes, plates/bowls/cups. Those plastic egg holders for your eggs and a decent ice chest. Make sure you bring the Seasoned Salt and Pepper, and Tobasco, for good cookin'. Plastic sandwich bags to keep stuff dry and matches. A good pocketknife and/or one of those folding multitools can come in handy, as well as hammer, pliers, adjustable wrench. A few clothespins and bungie cords have come in handy camping. One large good flashlight (like a maglite), and a few cheapie penlight LED AA-battery flashlights. Plastic-party tablecloth from the dollar store for the picnic table. Bringing along a folding table, if you have room, is handy, as well as a folding chair or two. Get two of those rubbermaid dishwashing containers, one for washin', one for rinsin'. An absolute necessity for us is the coffee percolator. 'Perked' camp coffee tastes better! Some boxes of Parmalot milk is good, because it is real milk, not dried, and doesn't have to be refrigerated until opened.
Of course, another 'must-have' is a good camp lantern. Get one that takes the same fuel as your stove (whether you choose propane or white gas) so that you are not having to cart around 2 different fuel types. The glow of a white gas or propane lantern is much warmer-looking than the glow of a battery light! Invest in a hard shell case for it, to hold the extra mantles and protect your glass globe.
If you are still tent camping (and if you are on this forum, I hope that unlike me, you are not) I find a tent fan is a must-have when it is warm out, to move the air around.
Personally, I like using a chuck box, but I know others do not or at least find them redundant to a galley. Good chuck box thread here:
http://tnttt.com/viewtopic.php?t=25931
Cheating, but I've found bringing along one or two of those artificial/paper fireplace logs can be helpful for starting a fire. Purists might not like it, but the kids do.
Oh, and personally, I don't leave home without the acoustic guitar, for strummin' and gentle pickin' around the campfire after supper.
I know I'm forgetting something, everytime I go camping I forget something. The Chuck Box helps with this.
Wife bought me a Dutch Oven recently, haven't used it yet, will report back on this, I know others love 'em. I have a cast iron griddle too, which might be redundant to the frying pan, but nice to have as an extra, if you have room.
Oh yeah - We just bought the Walmart version of the EZ-up canopy before our last camping trip. Since I've been camping for years without one, I didn't think of it as a necessity, but I will tell you, it made it nicer...Sweet Wife really liked having the canopy.
AL in Asheville
