Welcome to the world of camping.
If your looking for a dependable stove that is easy on the wallet and reliable I like this one
http://www.walmart.com/ip/Coleman-Camp- ... e/34761205 I own about 5 different stoves currently. This is a good one as you get flame control its lightweight, portable and inexpensive on fuel. You can pick up the butane just about anywhere for under $3 and at under $25 total w/fuel it's budget friendly. My cub scout uses this same stove for cooking his meals.
For lightweight and small pots I like these options:
http://www.walmart.com/ip/Stanley-Adven ... t/16784406 this little pot comes in real handy for boiling soups, water, and making vegetables without taking up a lot of room. I use mine constantly whether car camping or backpacking. I tossed out the little cups it came with just to get the pot. Again under $20 so easy on the wallet
http://www.coleman.com/product/coleman- ... D-nmhZ_Bqg this is a good mess kit I use constantly for my basic pot and pan. I like that it's stainless plenty large to cook for a family of 3 on the road. I love mine as I tossed out the bowl and cup and use the inside to stash other cooking gear like my pot holders, utensils, and other various items when traveling. Again under $25 so budget friendly.
I own all the items I have suggested and put them through some serious abuse with cub scouts and camping every weekend during season for the last 3 years. So, they hold up well.
If you need more suggestions just let me know. I have tons of affordable suggestions for cooking items that wont' break the bank or take up your whole storage space just to make a meal. You don't have to spend a lot to get good equipment. The big draw of the expensive stuff is that it's lightweight but your camping from a TD not backpacking 15 days through the outback. So, you don't have to count ounces.