As I am nearing a separation from my longtime girlfriend, I will be living exclusively in my trailer for the foreseeable future, for both fiscal reasons (I'm broke), and lifestyle choices (minimalist adventurer at heart). As my trailer will be my new HOME, I am dead set certain on retaining certain creature comforts of a conventional abode; place to shower, to do my duty, etc. All of which I have solutions for.
However, I've hit a snag on a few points, which is what I need help with. Unfortunately, being on the east coast, there is very little (if any) BLM land or dispersed camping options available. Couple that with our extreme heat & humidity during the summer, and I will most certainly need an electrical hookup for an AC (which my trailer will have). Soooo, my only option is a month-to-month campground type deal, where I can stay throughout the year. Or, splitting my time between 2 or 3 campgrounds because of stay limits.
From all the reading I've done here, it seems that the majority of you are free spirits who mostly boondock or stay on BLM land out west. But for those of you with more campground type experience, can you recommend any tips/tricks to get the pricing down at these places?
Here in Northern NJ, monthly campground rates are in the $500 to $700 range, which excludes electric hookup due to going month-to-month. Cheaper than an apartment for sure, but still pricey. Paying in cash and in advance might get me a discounted rate, and is one of the things I'm thinking. Do you believe I'd be able to bargain more being that my trailer is very small, and I will only need an electrical hookup?
Any suggestions are greatly appreciated. If I could move out west I'd do so in a heartbeat, but my son is here, and I need to be within an hour or two so I can see him regularly. After figuring out my expenses, which will include the campground rent, child support for my son, etc., I'm looking at about $2,000 per month, which means I will definitely need to continue working, and have no problem doing.
But any stealth advice on dealing with campground owners on pricing would be great. Final two questions, and I'll make these short & sweet...
Does anyone else here full time/live in their camper? If so, please share your thoughts/advice.
What about general campground security? I obviously don't want to hitch my trailer to my car everyday to go to work, etc. What's the best way to prevent theft of goods, or the trailer itself, while I'm away all day? I'm asking because I will not be staying at luxury type facilities or KOA campgrounds. These are pretty much "average", middle of the road type places.
Anywho, sorry for being so long-winded, and thanks in advance for any help! As bad of a situation that I'm in, this has always been a dream of mine, and I promise to make the most of it, as it is a new adventure, and that is what life is all about

Dudeman