Suggestions for my electrical service?

I'm trying to figure out what I need for my ac service. I have all the 12vdc pretty much figured out, but not sure what all I need for the ac.
Here's a list of what I plan to run.
Air Conditioner 16A
Water Heater 13A_______only when propane is not available
Microwave 13A?? _____ probably only when Air is off
Hair dryer 13A??______ probably when air is off
Small flat screen ??
Dvd player ??
Battery charger for 12v ??
Misc Outlets for cell
phones, flashlight
chargers, and
walkie talkies ??
I'm planning to use a 4500 inverter type generator most of the time, but I want to be able to use rv hookups if we happen to visit somewhere that has it, and I'd like to be able to run everything from my home service if possible, but I don't currently have a 30A outlet.
I'm assuming what I need is 30A service?
What all do I need?
30A cord?
Breaker panel of some sort? WFCO 8725 maybe?
30A inlet or just hatch using cord?
15A inlet?
Suggestions, pics, and links would all be greatly appreciated.
My apologies for all the questions.
Here's a list of what I plan to run.
Air Conditioner 16A
Water Heater 13A_______only when propane is not available
Microwave 13A?? _____ probably only when Air is off
Hair dryer 13A??______ probably when air is off
Small flat screen ??
Dvd player ??
Battery charger for 12v ??
Misc Outlets for cell
phones, flashlight
chargers, and
walkie talkies ??
I'm planning to use a 4500 inverter type generator most of the time, but I want to be able to use rv hookups if we happen to visit somewhere that has it, and I'd like to be able to run everything from my home service if possible, but I don't currently have a 30A outlet.
I'm assuming what I need is 30A service?
What all do I need?
30A cord?
Breaker panel of some sort? WFCO 8725 maybe?
30A inlet or just hatch using cord?
15A inlet?
Suggestions, pics, and links would all be greatly appreciated.
My apologies for all the questions.