Tanks

Are there any fresh/black/grey tank and trailer combinations that work well? I am thinking of a cargo conversion, and a working head and shower is a must have.
After several years with a teardrop, I had my last bad experiment with a foul smelling bathhouse...stunk worse than the Brookfield zoo monkey house.
I'm unable to find 2 things:
1) is there a tank maker / trailer combination that works especially easily? I want the tanks stowed underneath with the traditional RV knife style valves etc.
2) I can't find any details about how black tank is plumbed to the toilet. Obviously, the toilet dumps directly into the tanks, but what is needed between the flange and the tank....how are they connected.
I realize with tanks, showers will be GI style, that's fine...for a husband wife pair, how many gallons is reasonable per day? 8 gallons in our teardrop covers 2.5 days...so 3 for washing/cooking is the base we start with...
After several years with a teardrop, I had my last bad experiment with a foul smelling bathhouse...stunk worse than the Brookfield zoo monkey house.
I'm unable to find 2 things:
1) is there a tank maker / trailer combination that works especially easily? I want the tanks stowed underneath with the traditional RV knife style valves etc.
2) I can't find any details about how black tank is plumbed to the toilet. Obviously, the toilet dumps directly into the tanks, but what is needed between the flange and the tank....how are they connected.
I realize with tanks, showers will be GI style, that's fine...for a husband wife pair, how many gallons is reasonable per day? 8 gallons in our teardrop covers 2.5 days...so 3 for washing/cooking is the base we start with...