
First off, I made two mistakes while ordering that actually turned out to be very much in my favor. First, I thought I'd ordered standard 3M scotchlok taps, like this:

Instead, I ended up with this style, T-Taps:

I also thought I'd ordered 0.250" female disconnects but I ended up with a 250 pack of males. The good thing is the male disconnects connect to the T-Tap to give you a reusable version of the first tap, plus it let me do all of the lights' crimps on my saw rather than over my head in the tear (and then being unable to easily remove them).
The only downside is I've run out of 18-22awg female disconnects now, so I'm stuck waiting for the mailman to bring another pack.
Here's what the inside of the tear currently looks like, the left side is the driver's side switch plate ring. There are 13 conductors in there to control all of the lights in the interior (including a 3-way switch for the main lights) and turn on/off the 12v power station on the driver's side. Hopefully once I have all the connectors in place I can squeeze everything into the box...
The grey wire is 5-conductor 20awg, the biggest load is a total of 0.96 amp when the four general lights are running. I definitely wouldn't use that wire if I weren't exclusively using LEDs.
Here's the tongue box. This is going to be super fun to deal with when it's time to tie everything down.
I still need to buy a negative rail, the black terminal strip is one of two for power coming out of the PD4045, the grey strip is for the trailer lights/wiring.
And here are the interior lights with their disconnects crimped on.
Four of them (12 LEDs each) will be on the 3-way switch circuit, the other two (9 LEDs each) are individually controlled from the driver and curb sides respectively and dimmed in the first roof panel for reading lights. The dimmer having two conductors in and two conductors out really messed with my wiring plans and I had to improvise but it worked out in the end. The two smallest lights are the single LED units for the bunk lights at the foot of the bed. They each have an incredibly small wire coming off of them, I won't be able to use a disconnect on them so I have to think about how I want to handle them.