Another sealant thread

I know everyone asks this, and I've been searching this forum, but I'm seeing some differing answers.
Sealing windows, doors, hatches, and fans.
I had heard butyl tape was great for sealing everything, but the Fantastic fan and the Vintage Technologies all say NOT to use butyl tape. Anyone know why that is?
Also, the Vintage Tech doors come with their own rubber seal, but the window does not. Do I still need to caulk the doors?
Some people say they use silicone for everything, others say they hate it and never touch it.
I've also heard others say they use Vulkem-type, and some say polyurethane caulk.
Based on everything I've read, it seems like everyone has something they love, and use it without issues. It also seems like as long as I do a good job sealing things up, what I use is ... less important?
So, rather than asking again, "What should I use, I'll ask Is there anything that "EVERYONE" "hates" and that I should stay away from?
Similar question,
I bought DAP Dynaflex Ultra Window, Door, Siding & Trim caulk that I was going to use.
Exterior sealant that adheres to everything, pretty much. +/- 35% joint movement, permanently flexible, crack-proof, lifetime mold, mildew, algae resistant, resist UV fading, and is paintable.
Is this a bad sealer to use?
Sealing windows, doors, hatches, and fans.
I had heard butyl tape was great for sealing everything, but the Fantastic fan and the Vintage Technologies all say NOT to use butyl tape. Anyone know why that is?
Also, the Vintage Tech doors come with their own rubber seal, but the window does not. Do I still need to caulk the doors?
Some people say they use silicone for everything, others say they hate it and never touch it.
I've also heard others say they use Vulkem-type, and some say polyurethane caulk.
Based on everything I've read, it seems like everyone has something they love, and use it without issues. It also seems like as long as I do a good job sealing things up, what I use is ... less important?
So, rather than asking again, "What should I use, I'll ask Is there anything that "EVERYONE" "hates" and that I should stay away from?
Similar question,
I bought DAP Dynaflex Ultra Window, Door, Siding & Trim caulk that I was going to use.
Exterior sealant that adheres to everything, pretty much. +/- 35% joint movement, permanently flexible, crack-proof, lifetime mold, mildew, algae resistant, resist UV fading, and is paintable.
Is this a bad sealer to use?