Oh, my ...

...!
The trailer-tire vs. car-tire issue is a lot like the "recommended" tongue-weight issue ... at least, it seems so to me! First you have the new folks who just want to have/build a safe & enjoyable trailer ... then you have the experts who follow/parrot industry "standards & recommendations" ... and then you have the lifetime of been-there-done-that, real-world, seat-of-the-pants, hundreds-of-thousands-of-miles, practical experience people. Neither of the "industry standards' experts nor the practical experience people are particularly wrong ... just pick the one that feels & sounds most comfortable and practical for you and stick with it, while accepting and understanding that the other choice would have been just as fine!
Bottom lines are these four Top Rules of Trailering:
#! - Pay attention to your equipment and service as needed/required!
#2 - Pay attention to your equipment and service as needed/required!
#3 - Pay attention to your equipment and service as needed/required!
#4 - Never forget Rules 1-3 ...!
FWIW ... I've been running mid-grade automotive radials, inflated to no more than 20 psi, on all of my teardrops for over 27 years, and I have
never ever had a problem ... no abnormal tire-wear, overheating, blowouts or other such tire faiure (never a flat, either, BTW!). When I found & purchased the wheels & tires for my Saturn Wagon back in '05, I got six of them ... two for the teardrop. I'm on my third set of tires on the car, but the tires on the trailer are still the '05 originals ... they're P245/45-17Rs, recommended tire pressure of 45 psi, but I only run 25 psi on the trailer (up from my normal 20 because they're so wide!) ... I take this trailer anywhere and
everywhere I can take my car (and I take that thing to some unreal places, for a car!), and I load the crap out of it ...
That roof-rack is carrying two EZ-Ups, a full 20# bottle of propane, a roll of carpet, a market umbrella, a few pieces of firewood, and a mountain bike ... the ice chest is FULL ... the galley is packed ... and the cabin has three stuffed suitcases and several other items (I won't mention what was in the car ...

...!) ... hey, we were headed out on a two-week-plus adventure, what can I say!
I was a commercial driver for over 17 years, and I've been pulling trailers for almost all of my driving years ... I check my equipment at rest stops & gas stations and always monitor what both vehicles are telling me (visually, audibly, and by "feel"),
always!
Anyway, the moral of all this is simply what I've already stated: "Neither of the 'industry standards' experts nor the practical experience people are particularly wrong ... just pick the one that feels & sounds most comfortable and practical for you and stick with it, while accepting and understanding that the other choice would have been just as fine!"
Happy & Safe Trailering, Everybody!
CHEERS!
Grant