For camping with toddlers, I found a play yard invaluable, especially at any time when I was cooking (breakfast, lunch, dinner....)
http://www.amazon.com/Summer-Infant-Sec ... s=dog+yardPut them inside with a bucket and some pebbles, some sand, a spoon, a couple of plastic cars--beach toys. Oh, if you have two, double all that! Toddlers can play nicely next to each other, but they really aren't developmentally ready to share. Try to avoid playing with stuffies and blankies outside in the dirt. Kids can learn as early as 18 months that there are inside toys and outside toys. Keep the inside toys inside for bed time. Oh, also try to have two identical lovey blankets, just in case one gets dumped in a stream and isn't dry by bed time. (Since I had twins, we had LOTS of double sets. They eventually settled on DIFFERENT blankets that they loved, so I had two for each for emergencies and, of course, wash days. LOVED IT!!!)
At other times I kept them on kid-leashes. My mom had strong feelings on this, and I heard all through my childhood and then again when I had my own kids, about a child she babysat for when she was a teen whose shoulder was dislocated when his mother yanked him back to his feet after he tripped. Mom used a kid leash on all three of us siblings in the 60s, and bought me two kid-leashes as soon as mine started walking (actually running) in opposite directions as toddlers.
Don't plan long hikes the first few times you go camping. If you have an infant with you, a cuddle-type pack is appropriate but hard on your back. With toddlers, a rigid-frame pack is a must, and is great exercise. Remember, always turn back for camp while the child is happy. Once the kid gets whiny and over-tired, especially if you CAN'T carry him all the way back, it's just a recipe for unhappy noises and not-so-great memories. Children who sleep easily in a pack are a joy, but you can't count on that.
Remember you can get tired and whiny, too. Stop doing what ever you are doing before it isn't fun any more. If you give your kids time-outs when they start yelling, give yourself one when you do.
Remember, happy noises may be loud, but they are happy. Trying to make kids understand YOUR definition of having fun my just result in UNHAPPY noises, which are louder, longer, and more painful than happy noises. Change YOUR definition to understand that happy noises are SINGING as far as the toddler is concerned. Singing is good. Learn some silly campfire songs and sing along. Think songs about bears growling, dogs barking, and ducks quacking, that sort of thing.
Food needs to be familiar. To get kids ready for camping out, cook a few times in the back yard using your camp-cooking gear to make sure you can turn out the kid-friendly foods outside of your own kitchen. Make eating in the back yard a fun time! I'm a home cooker (very few convenience foods), and I can produce just about anything in camp that I can at home, including cake and cookies. My camp foods are NOT limited to hamburgers and hot dogs, etc. Yours should not be either.
EVERYONE needs to start the day with some protein. Sugary cereal leads to a sugar crash and whiny-ness. Even non-sugary cereals are often entirely refined carbs, which digest into sugars and lead to a carb-crash. Milk and most milk-like-beverages have protein, but some also contain a lot of sugar. Orange and apple juices have sugar/carbs. Yogurt has protein but often as much or more sugar than cereals. Camp breakfasts that include eggs/meat/potatoes/etc really do make sense, but should be introduced to children as "weekend" breakfasts before your first camping trip with them. Bacon does not count as a meat, it counts as a fat with flavor. OTOH, fat in the diet does make you feel full and holds off the sugar/carb crash longer. And it IS bacon! Just remember, moderation in all things.
I assume you want your kids/grandkids to enjoy camping with you. Start training yourself to say the POSITIVE thing rather than the negative. (Sadly, this takes practice, even if you think of yourself as a positive, loving parent/grandparent.)
When you hear a crash, DO SAY "Are you okay? Do you need some help?" Do NOT say "WHAT DID YOU BREAK?
When you hear a splash, DO SAY "Are you okay? How's the water? Do you need a towel?" Do NOT say "I TOLD YOU NOT TO PUSH YOUR SISTER IN THE LAKE!!!!!"
When you hear crying, DO SAY "Are you okay? Do you need a kiss?" Do NOT say "STOP CRYING OR I'LL GIVE YOU SOMETHING TO CRY ABOUT!!!!"
When someone says, "I need to go," DO SAY "Okay, let's go find the potty." Do NOT say "In a minute/15 minutes/when I finish (fill in the blank)" Someone will need a change of pants in no time.
When someone drops all of the dinnerware in the dirt, DO SAY, "Thank you for helping me set the table, but let's rinse those off before we eat." Do NOT say "WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? GET AWAY FROM THE TABLE UNTIL I CALL YOU!!!! CAN'T YOU SEE I'M TRYING TO COOK DINNER????"
When there's a skunk/raccoon/bear outside the bath house, DO SAY, "Let's stay here and sing camp songs." Do NOT say "OMG, THERE'S A BEAR OUT THERE, WE'RE ALL GOING TO DIE!!!!"
And finally....
When you get home at the end of your camping trip, DO SAY, "Thank you for going camping with me. I hope we can go again soon." Do NOT say "THANK GOD WE'RE HOME!!!! WE'RE NEVER DOING THAT AGAIN IN THIS LIFETIME, IT WAS THE WORST EXPERIENCE IN MY LIFE!!!!"
Catherine
