Are the taillights on your car LED? You may have multiplexing or pulse width modulation going on that won't work with a standard converter (you didn't say which one you used).
You might need something like this.
http://www.towready.com/content/product ... %20&part=0
The following is taken from the instructions for the 119192.
c) Some vehicles combine stop and tail light
functions onto 1 circuit (such as Mercedes
R-class). These vehicles will require that you
attach the trailer light power module red "stop"
wire to that same circuit on the vehicle and then
ground the brown "tail light" circuit.
d) Some vehicles combine stop and tail light
functions onto 1 circuit and then also have
an additional tail light function wire that is
independent of the stop (such as the BMW X5)
These vehicles will require that you attach the
trailer light power module red "stop" wire to
the same combined circuit on the vehicle and
then attach the brown "tail light" circuit to the
independent circuit on the vehicle.
e) Some vehicles combine the stop, turn and
taillight function onto 1 circuit and then also have
an additional combined stop and taillight circuit
(such as the VW GTI). These vehicles will require
that you attach the trailer light power module
red “stop” wire to the 2 function vehicle circuit
and attach the trailer light power module turn
functions to the 3 function vehicle circuit
(yellow = driver side, green = passenger side).
Then ground the trailer light power module
brown “taillight” circuit.