I'm following, too.
I think the more info you provide, visual (pics), technical and emotional, the more people will be able to relate to your build.
You are doing great!
There are many others here that have a much harder time getting their thoughts across (be it due to using a cell phone and not using punctuation, lack of spell check, or just moderate illiteracy) that I sometimes feel sorry that they are not getting a more interactive experience from the forum. You have nothing to feel sorry about. (Maybe I will catch some flack for this, but it is honest and as real as I can be. Hell, sometimes my thoughts all run together in a big dump and make no sense to me later, either.

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Your TD is coming out great, your cabinets look good, and you seem to have a good grasp on the electrical stuff.
Don't get discouraged. This is a huge undertaking and you are smack dab in the middle of it. "When the going gets tough, keep going" - I believe that is a Winston Churchill quote, or something close to it.
Remember, you are building this for you and your needs. Don't worry about what other people do or think. Make it so that you are happy.
In the end, you are the only one that you need to please.
