For recharging at home between weekends. For each 100 Amp hour battery, I'd have 5 Amps recharge rate. Less chance of damaging batteries if the charger fails to cut off. Also less damage to the plates will be done at a nice slow charge rate. In two days a totally discharged battery bank will be fully recharged.
If you want to recharge from a generator, then get a charger capable of 20 or so amps per 100 amp hours of battery, but obviously not larger than the watt output of the generator. Then only recharge to 80% to 90% of full. The last 10% of the recharge will take allot longer to do, and will be expensive fuel wise. Skip it, and just recharge more often.
If you want to recharge from your car alternator, use jumper cables and turn all lights, radios, etc,, off in the car. The wire in the trailer wiring connector isn't large enough for a fast recharge rate. Monitor the battery voltage, and cut off recharge when it gets to 80 to 90% recharged. Again, that last 10% is expensive fuel wise. Skip it, and just recharge more often. A note on recharging from a vehicle. When you decide to stop recharging, disconnect the jumper cables, then wait a couple minutes for the TV battery to top off a bit more, and then shut down.
On depth of discharge vs. cycle life: From that Trojan battery spec. Note 80% DOD is well over 500 cycles. 50 weekend trips a year times 10 years is only 500 cycles. Chances are the battery will be killed by winter neglect, or simply die of old age before it cycle lives out for the average TD user. Note: the chart is for that Trojan battery. A typical AGM deep cycle/starting will only have 250 to 400 cycle life at 80% DOD. Still a long time for an occasional use RV.
If you really want proven long life, get Saft NiCd traction batteries. They have been in use in electric cars for over 30 years. Many in use in cars have well over 3000 cycles to >80% DOD and are still going strong. At 50 cycles a year, that is 60 years.

About the only things that kills them are accidents, and letting the plates get exposed to air. The main thing with them is keeping them topped off with deionized distilled water. They make this easy with a filling system that is easy to use. All the batteries in a bank are hooked together with tubes. When you pour water in the funnel, the cells are topped off one by one. When water flows out the exit tube, refilling is done.