This is the unit I have;

http://www.powerstream.com/battery-isolator.htm

Bruce,
You're right, I wasn't thinking about that for the typical tow car/rv setup where the second battery is in the trailer.
(my second battery is 6' behind the first, but is still on the truck)
I am able to start the truck with the second battery because I have massive cables supplying the inverter, which are capable of handling the current needed by the starter motor.
Rob