Sorry to hear about the need for your wife's surgery. That can make one lose focus on other stuff.
You could start with a radiator hooked up above the water heater tank and a fan or two. Visualize a pipe tee'd into the hot outlet line and leading to the heater core / radiator. Then a line from the other end of the radiator returning to the cold inlet line at the water heater. See how much heat you get oiut of that. If it seems to not be hot enough a recirculation pump might make it work better. But maybe it would work w/o the extra pump.
I found that I needed to bleed the air out of that loop before it would begin to flow from convection. I used a tee fitting with a valve I could open slightly to bleed the air out. The pressure pump would sense the drop in pressure and turn on, forcing the water through the line to the bleed valve. After closing the bleeder the water would continue to flow through the loop by convection. I think there are valves with a bleeder cap/screw. I just used a shut off I had kicking around.
Hope that makes some sense.