Here's another possibility. I had this experience last weekend. Your 20# tank has a auto shutoff that works if propane flows out of the tank too fast. If you have a length of piping, it needs to fill with propane until it reaches tank pressure. You might be tripping the shutoff when you first open the tank valve.
Here's how to tell if that's the problem: shut the tank valve and wait half a minute. Slowly open the valve while you listen to the tank. (You can't do this in a noisy place.) You'll hear some gas hissing. If you also hear a small "tink" from the tank, you tripped the shutoff. Turn the valve off, and you will hear another "tink" when the shutoff resets. Slowly open the valve and try again. Repeat until you don't trip the shutoff. Now you can open the valve all the way. Then try to light your stove. If this has been the problem, the stove should light & work OK.
I had tested my setup at home, without all the piping, and everything worked just fine. Then I took the trailer out for its second trip. Hooked up through the trailer piping, went to make my morning coffee, and ... nothing.

Not even a hiss from the stove. No coffee? No hot breakfast? Thought I was gonna die.

It turned out to be the shutoff. I went from "oh what a beautiful morning" to utter despair and back again, all in ten minutes.
I hope your problem is something this simple. Good luck!
