Now I'm not sure what to do, I don't want to bend the axle, and I'm mad as hell that either he was an idiot or I was for assuming. The frame is actually super solid with my changes...
Do I just keep building and do what I can for weight?, can I change out the axle and wheels?...
I'm so mad right now I can't see straight...

All that progress and poof!!!
Here are some shots of what I've done so far...
https://flic.kr/s/aHskfAVte9
HELP!!!