I apologize for not getting back sooner.
I made a major humbling discovery that I believe made a huge difference, yet I am not sure I'm 100% there.
Towards the end of last week I double checked everything that I could think of with my setup. I was starting to lean towards there being an issue with the charge controller or solar panel.
The thing is the charge controller read my battery, but not the solar panel. I had a very good reading (18.

I recall taking my multimeter to the PV LED contacts, so everything had to be getting through.
Almost as a last resort I asked myself the question. "By any chance was the voltage from solar panel to charge controller a negative polarity instead of positive?"
I again took my multimeter to the PV LED contacts. At first I was good with a positive reading. Then looking to the left of the number there was a column of different hard to understand symbols. The last one in line going down was a small horizontal straight line!
That didn't hit me as good as it should have because everything was tightened down, cut to size and VERY difficult to access in the tongue box. This was very depressing.
I loosened up everything and still almost didn't have enough slack to feed wire to the end groove of the charge controller. All the wires were frayed. I could see the residue of wires breaking free of the nests of wires. To get the wires in the charge controller grooves meant reaching down to the bottom of a tongue box with the lid in the way with only 1 inch of clearance to the bottom of the box. I had to make the birds nest of wires slide in to where the grooves were and shove as much of the wires in by feel of just 1 finger. I had to get my Dad's assistance to stretch the last wire just enough to where I could make a stab at getting this in the slot. The terminal screws are very counter intuitive. Without seeing the bottom of the connections I have no way of telling whether they are indeed tight. Somehow this all now seems to be somewhat in place.
The 1st thing that I noticed when I put everything together was that there still was no PV LED light shining. The voltage reading to the PV LED contacts dropped to a disappointing 13.2, but it was positive.

Then it rained several days straight. I was very ready to rip everything apart and try to get a more accessible solution to my charge controller wiring.
In coming home from work on Monday even though the whether still was off and on rain I took a look at the charge controller. I was almost elated to see the PV LED light lit up! I measured the voltage at the battery to have increased to 12.87! Each day the battery level went up a little. The last I read it was at 13 volts, but the PV LED light now is blinking. I think it is at full charge.
Today I decided I needed to do a road test to make sure all of my connections and design was stable. Besides one of the twisty ties coming loose at the solar panel (which I don't believe anything wants to adhere to the aluminum), it all held together. In looking at the charge controller, I am at least still seeing a periodic blinking, after the road test.
For now I am very pleased. I really wanted to just go out camping when I got back into the driveway.

I know that I am not out of the woods yet. It really wouldn't surprise me if one of the solar wire leads comes apart when I take the trailer on a bumpy road. If this happens I will take things apart and change the solar panels positioning to a tilt instead of vertical in the tongue box. Other than that I was very pleased in the overall design. I really love the liquid tight conduit for hiding away the solar wires and not looking completely out of place. I do believe it was a much better solution than using Eternabond, especially if and when I have to try stretching out the solar panel wiring to accommodate my charge controller positioning change.
I very much appreciate the helpful input everyone has given me. Without your help and ideas I would have been way over my head. I am no pro at putting things together. I had some terribly humbling moments. This was a very good experience however. I am glad to have people to share this with!
I am anxious to find some nice campgrounds and or peaceful spots in the woods to see how well this all works.