The trailer passed PA inspection again today. Here is a good photo from last year.

I also topped off the propane tank at the local depot, and then drove to a CAT scale located at a truck stop. I had never weighed the trailer before, and I think it is about time!
First weigh, with the whole rig:

Because I am not a truck, the labels are not right. My entire Jeep is the steer axle, and the trailer is the drive axle.
Re-weigh, this time only with the trailer, unhitched from the Jeep:

These two weighs give me a lot of good info:
First, the trailer:
The trailer weighs 2800 lbs loaded up for camping, with full propane. I thought it was between 2500 and 3000, so I wasn't far off.
The tongue weight is 300 lbs. This is about perfect, as 10% of the trailer weight is the ideal.
The trailer's GVWR (according to the tag on the tongue) is 3160 lbs, so I am in spec.

(picture is of a tag from a M116A3 trailer like mine, found on another forum)
Second, the Jeep:
The Jeep weighs 5460 lbs with me sitting in it and the trailer hitched up, carrying a load of heavy tools in the back.
This is under the Jeep's GVWR of 5675 lbs, which is good news. My lifted Jeep has beefier springs than the stock version, so it can probably handle more weight. I don't plan to overload it, though. It does make me hesitate on eventually getting a steel winch bumper (wanted one for a long time), because that would replace some weight for cargo. Hmmm...

The towing capacity of the Jeep is 5000 lbs with 500 lbs of tongue weight, and the trailer is well under that.
The bottom line is our rig is within safety margins, which makes me and my wife feel good. It is definitely not as light as most trailers on here. The flatbed military trailer itself was 800 lbs according to the tag, before I built anything on it. I think it would be interesting to weigh the trailer empty at some point. I think I probably have 500 lbs of stuff in it right now, which means I added about 1500 lbs with the build itself.