thin out some of the stain and do an overall wipe with a damp rag on the entire piece as a last coat, can use a roller also, covers more ground equally in a hurry. Get it completely wet, as that's how it's going to look when you put the epoxy on. I'd also check for dryness prior to putting any epoxy on it. Depending on just how wet you get it, it may need more dry time. I'd just roll on the first coat of epoxy, but if the fuzz is really bad, use some really fine grit paper, don't cut into the wood, just get the fuzz. It's thick enough that any of the fuzzies raised with the dying process will be taken care of on the first coat. If not, sand the epoxy. Any serious sanding on what you have done now, may cause a color change and you will fill the pores with the dust. Just my ideas on it. others may vary. doug
PS, you did do a sample piece for color check didn't you?
