Thank you Gus, you are exactly right. It would be hard to undo now, but I might have tied the relay to the 120V side of the converter. My battery goes through a switch to the the converter DC output terminals. From there D/C power from either source connects to the trailer by way of a D/C master switch and fuses. If the battery switch is on, charging from the Battery Tender is inhibited as though the converter was on. I have to remember to turn the battery switch off and turn converter/trailer A/C power switch off to charge from the Battery Tender. Shore power goes through another A/C switch to the Battery Tender and there is also a switch for the D/C output of the Battery Tender. If the Battery Tender D/C switch is off the relay is unpowered so the relay does not remain on unnecessarily. A lot of things have to be set correctly for the Battery Tender to charge the battery. Is it any wonder that I usually just use the three stage converter to maintain the battery?

Fortunately a flashing light on the Battery Tender panel reminds me if it is powered but not connected to the battery. I think one reason I used D/C power for the relay was a reluctance to put both A/C and D/C connections in the same junction box. The D/C switch is DPDT with center off. Up enables the Battery Tender output and relay coil, while down turns on a D/C utility light. Perhaps I will think about changing the relay power to the converter A/C power.

After all, this is a hobby.
Bill
PS Some photos in my album show my electrical system. Comments attached to some of the photos indicate component source or my wiring arrangement. My Little Guy arrived with no electrical system except three AA battery operated lights.