Arne wrote:Pets give you more than you can ever give them.
And, you don't have to send them to college, or psychiatrists. Been there done that
They usually don't get arrested for being drunk, or do drugs. Just one underage DUI in our house
The make the perfect child alternative. Best thing is, they won't want to borrow my car. or their mother's car and do 12K in damage within an hour of getting a license
I'm going to Lowe's to buy a stepladder, on sale. Tela will go with me and won't want me to buy her anything. She just likes to go for rides with me. gave #2 son ten bucks gas money to drive his truck just so he'd stop bugging me to borrow my motorcycle after ruining my other bike by not keeping the chain tensioned. I gave him the money just to see the look on his face as he wasn't expecting to win, ha!
You forgot to mention taking a prescription pain killer and giving it to a classmate (big trouble!) and other youthfull indiscretions resulting in interactions with the police, DAs, school officials, and attorneys!
However, few dogs (and even fewer cats) sucessfully complete tours in the USMC and I'm convinced that my boys will actually graduate from college. #1 is a senior in ME at Cal Poly, SLO and #2 is back in school (he got lost (USMC) on the way to college the first time around) , motivated, and I'm sure will graduate in record time with the credits he got for bing in the USMC and at a fraction of the cost of #1 son as he gets 70% of the GI Bill!!
There is a big similarity betwee what Rex hears and my son Eric hears. When Rex's owner speaks, Rex hears: Blah, blah, blah, Rex, blah, blah, blah, Rex.......... My son hears blah, blah, blah, Eric, blah, blah, blah, Eric, and not much more! Eric is, however, housebroken and I don't have to follow him with a pooper scooper!
Everything (including spouses,children, and pets) in life is a compromise and there is no such thing as a "perfect compromise".
Cheers,
Gus
The opinions in this post are my own. My comments are directed to those that might like an alternative approach to those already espoused.There is the right way,the wrong way,the USMC way, your way, my way, and the highway.
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