Aren't people who are 63 supposed to have gray hair? What looks strange to me is people who don't have gray hair at an age when it would be normal. I think, and this had some research support, hair color that doesn't match the experience on your face (and I don't mean wrinkles, people just plain look different at age 20 than 60) looks aging. I strongly believe gray hair is not aging. Remember it is how you feel and and act that expresses your age. How can the color of your hair change a number?
Research has shown that without gray hair people guess your age as no more than 3-4 years younger than your actual age to your
actual age. So with gray hair you don't look OLDER, you just look like what you are. For some folks that is not ok, but for me it is. I am fine with my age. I am what I am and no amount of hair dye will change that I am 51 (almost 52). I am happier now in my 50s than I have ever been, so I don't want to look like I am in my 30s, that is a time I don't want to return to! And my hair is much grayer than most folks my age. Embrace the gray!
I work for a school district, where everyone looks "young" . I would suggest that I am one of only 3 women who have non-dyed hair. But I don't feel old. I think I look much better than the some of the folks much older than I with hair colors that have no gray, but don't exist in nature either
I certainly think that everyone needs to do what feels right for them, but I hate that we as a culture have made what is "normal" in to "old." Such that folks in their 50s and 60s think it is no longer normal to have gray hair! and to do so is to make them feel old. We have done this to ourselves and I say it is time to stop.