by Judeyramone » Thu Dec 02, 2010 12:44 am
Heavens, do I have stories about credit cards!
First... do the math. Nobody in their right mind would take out a mortgage or car loan on the terms offered by any credit card company. During my 15yr relationship with my ex, I fought the whole time to eliminate the credit cards - I'm a pay for it with green cash from my pocket kind of guy.
But... I have to tell this story...
Shortly after we were married, I put my wife on my AmEx account, so she could have her own card, as opposed to asking me for mine when she needed it. After about a year or so, AmEx cancelled my card for non-payment (wife was in charge of paying bills - it was just her job. I fixed the furnace when it stopped working, etc). Looking into my bills... wife was charging a daily latte ($6) at Starbucks on the way to work on a regular basis. "I didn't have any money."
Well, you don't drink any F***ing coffee today, do you?
I was later able to convince her that we would be better off w/o the credit cards, and we rolled them into a mortgage refinance. Several years later, during the divorce, I found out she'd borrowed against all the equity in the house without telling me. All beside the point, I know. I have not used a credit card for almost 10yrs, and have never missed it.
My coffee comment above may be rude, but expresses a sentiment not unfamiliar to most older folks, who lived through the 30s, or whose parents did. .. if you don't have the money to buy something, you don't buy it. Simple as that.
I have plenty of other debts currently, but none at 29%.
Good luck.