Gail,
Your view is a perspective not often visited...but worthy of consideration.
Right, or wrong, silly or proud, the things we do to make ourselves stand out are not always things that will benefit us, and often times are self imposed stumbling blocks or even brick walls.
I have a small tattoo on my arm.
I'm proud of me, and do not regret that change.
I also don't think because someone has tattoos, piercings, etc, that they are bad, or adversly different, it is a choice we all make, but one that does have implications.
Back in the 60's and 70's long hair was the statement, sometimes cute, sometimes way too much, but at least reversable.
I really feel for a lot of the young people I encounter that have made large irreversable changes to their bodies.
Extreme tattoo's, ear rings-the kind that stretch your ear lobe, facial piercings, etc.
Perhaps they don't realize that these mods can, and most probably will, dictate what "class" others percieve them to belong to.
As most know, once "branded" chances for moving into a better position than checkout boy/girl at the local grocery, etc. are greatly effected.
Sure, I know that many very successful people have tattoos, piercings, etc, but in general, when I'm hiring for positions that involve public contact and PR. work, the folks with the different look are overlooked.
However, at the rate we're changing, by the time I'm old and grey, perhaps those who are now scorned, will be those running things, and the new outcasts will be us...
Rob
Waiting for "someday" will leave you on your deathbed wondering why you didn't just rearrange your priorities and enjoy the time you had, instead of waiting for a "better" time to come along...