Yep, it's worth stressing:
- With polyesters, which includes Bondo, you can alter the hardener ratio within quite wide limits to alter the speed of cure.
- With epoxies, if you get the hardener ratio wrong by a fairly modest amount, either way, the resin doesn't go off. If you want a faster or slower gel time, you have to buy faster or slower hardener.
If epoxy doesn't go off, and you think you used the right mix ratio, and you think you mixed it thoroughly*, it can be that the resin hasn't got hot enough to cure, so adding a local heat source can get it started.
*Mixing epoxy means stirring for the recommended time and getting the stirrer into every crevice of the mixing pot. By comparison, just waving a stick anywhere near the mixing pot is good enough for polyester.