I think there are two issues at work:
1) Amateur welding - by running both tubes continuously, it avoids the need for 100% effective welds. The highest load is trying to close the joint where the tongue crosses the front cross-member (is that what you call a header?) as the failure mode is always coupler-up, not coupler-down.
2) Fatigue. The Australians know more about this than anyone with their washboard roads and the Aussie rules forbid any welding where the tongue crosses the front cross-member. Wherever there are welds, there are stress concentrations and the Aussies have found that the welds cause fatigue cracks that causes the tongue to snap.
If you look at the forces, it's only where the tongue crosses the front cross-member that there is a big load - all other joints are fairly lightly loaded.