
-Edit- I found a good comparison chart here. http://www.campfirecompare.com/. Although it is clearly sponsored by campfire in a can, it does give a nice comparison and a video of each item's flames. I think I have it down to the Redwood by camp chef, but I want to wait to hear what you all say. Campfire In a can does seem to have it all, including a high price and the most use of propane, so it is out. Redwood can be fetched at Costco online currently for 99$ including shipping. The down side of this one is it is not infinitely adjustable, has pre-set settings and although it does come with a bag, it is not the nice hard case of Campfire in a Can or Little Red campfire. Little red campfire, per reviews and ratings, I don't think will be warm enough. Fire dancer has a nice flame which is fully adjustable , warm, but not a huge propane user, but cheesey looking logs or messy vermiculite, and greater price. I like the overland a lot, but seems to be only availables from Canada. It is very similar to the Redwood, but costs more plus shipping.
I still want to hear from actual users