It sounds like you do think some flexibility is important, is that based on using similar material? I really appreciate your thoughts.
Yes, except the material I used was not vinyl covered but bare aluminum flashing.
As for expansion, it is definitely a concern. For example; on one side tree debris fell between the camper and the aluminum as I was adhering it to the camper. I had to pull the aluminum off to get the helicopter seed and then re-adhere the aluminum. That run (I did 3 24" overlapping runs down the side) did not stick well and later puckered when in the sun but looked nice in the shade and winter.
The other runs have stuck nicely for 7 years and have an interesting "hammered" look due to the thin aluminum undulating over the Henry's below.
Having worked with Silkaflex since using the Henry's I would go with the Silkaflex. Mad Max is right. Very flexible and very sticky good stuff once cured. Bfore curing it runs easily, though, and might require placing the aluminum on your substrate while it lays flat rather than vertical.